What do You want to be when you get out?

I don’t know why, but so few of you actually ask yourselves about what career you want to get into before you ETS.  It baffles me how many of you get out without a plan.  It’s like someone pissed you off so you said: Now what?

If you get out without a plan you’re going to end up going to school on your GI bill to get some criminal justice degree, or you’ll end up on some .gov jobs site trying to get employment doing your MOS as a civilian. If you don’t like our MOS, if it’s not your dream to be an S6 for the rest of your short time on this planet, then you don’t have to do that ok?  Seriously, you can do something else.

When I got out, I didn’t know what I wanted to do, but I knew I didn’t want to work with the government.  I talk about this in detail in the book, but I got to interview with a ton of different companies that make products I use every day like Unilever, and Fidelity, and Diageo.  I finally decided to start my career with John Deere and it has been an awesome ride!

I had a chance to learn all about factory operations, work alongside the United Auto Workers union and learn how to weld. I got to run agriculture equipment all over the US and Canada.  I got to visit factories in Mexico and farmers in California, Arizona, Florida, Ohio, Pennsylvania and more.  I also got to lead the team to bring out the new 459E baler and create the intro videos for it.  Now i’m the lead guy for Tweels and i’ve gotten to work closely with Michelin. That’s a far cry from being a platoon leader and an intel analyst!

I’m not the only one, there are many other veterans with successful careers in companies and organizations all around the world.  Other guys have started their own companies like RangerUp, Warrior Soul, Crossfit Sua Sponte, and Southern Pines Brewery.  Some guys have started charitable organizations like Warrior 360 and 22kill.

Look, the point is that if you get out without a plan like the dude above, you’re going to end up having to go back to what you were doing before.  If you make a plan and think about shit for five fucking seconds, you can do a lot of really awesome stuff.

This is not to disparage the guys who actually WANT to do their MOS as a civilian, i’m talking about the guys who run out of options because they weren’t prepared.

If you are getting ready to ETS and don’t know what you’re doing and don’t know what to expect, get a copy of the book.  There are a ton of details on how to get interviews and other challenges you’ll face when you ETS.  If you’re too cheap, I want to help you anyway, so check out the 4 big questions and read through that at least.

If you’ve already gotten out and realized this was you, please share this post so your buddies maybe won’t make the same career mistake.  Seriously, it takes two seconds and will make a big difference to the guy who needs it.

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It’s Time for a Buddy System

I read a story this morning about a veteran who killed himself after his call to the VA for help went to voicemail. Besides the obvious reason for getting pissed off, I’ve been asking myself a lot lately, “what are you going to do about it?”  I’m done bitching and whining, it’s time for action.

The DOD has no idea why soldiers are killing themselves more now than ever before.  I know most of us think it’s because of the wars, but nope, there is no correlation between combat and suicide.  They are also not spending any money figuring out the cause by the way.

The point is this:  We need to band together as a veteran community and start taking care of ourselves; it’s obvious no one else is going to.  There are a lot of great organizations out there like Warrior360 and 22kill that are veteran run and really doing a lot of good, but I want to take it a step further:

I want YOU to get involved.

Here’s what you need to do:

  1. Identify a buddy, tag them in this post, or if you don’t have facebook, comment below.  This is a public declaration that they are your buddy.
  2. If you don’t have a buddy in mind, then please comment that you need a buddy and state your location and date of service.  We will find you one.
  3. You will talk to your buddy at a minimum once a week.  You will ask difficult questions about their finances, relationships, and mental state
  4. You and your buddy will answer honestly
  5. If your buddy goes into a dark place, you are the first line of defense to get him help
  6. You will take this role seriously

None of this is new to any of you, we’ve all done it before.  We are making a formal buddy assignment.

It’s time for us to band together, set up our security perimeter and watch out for each other…no one else is going to do it for us.

 

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Cowards Wearing Green Berets

Most of you that follow this page probably already have heard about this case, but in case you haven’t, you need to pay attention to the story of SFC Charles Martland and CPT Daniel Quinn.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

These two warriors were confronted by a small Afghan boy and his mother while conducting operations in their AO.  The boy and his mother reported a horrific account where the young child was tied to a pole and brutally raped and beaten by a local Afghan Police commander.  When the mother reported this to local authorities, she was summarily beaten as well, so she went to the symbol of freedom in the area, the men who wear this symbol:

 

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When these men confronted the Afghan commander he reportedly laughed off the accusations.

Dear reader, if you have never seen evil personified, then maybe you don’t know the visceral reaction that it creates in the mind and body of a sheepdog.  Where many other men would cower, these two did not.  They gave that sick rapist the beating he deserved, and frankly showed mercy in sparing his life in my opinion.

What happened next, and is still happening now, is the greatest affront to everything the US Military and our Special Operations forces stands for:  Both of these men were reprimanded for their actions.

I have had some patience in writing this post as I reached out to friends in special operations to confirm because I was in disbelief, but no, it’s true: there are cowards wearing Green Berets.

Not the two men who lived up to what their fucking emblem says “De Oppresor Liber” (even as far as Latin goes, that one is easy to figure out).  No, it’s everyone in their chain of command that dons the same uniform.

Those fucking cowards that claim to be leaders of green berets have no principles whatsoever.  They chose their damn careers over their men.

This has become a regular occurrence in the Army.  Follow any military page on social media, and you’re bound to see something about leaders not caring for their soldiers.  Besides a smattering of a few Lieutenant Colonels, the real warfighters, those that have actually experienced real combat, are generally Majors and below.  It’s the junior leaders that understand the brotherhood and that have been truly tested, evidenced by these two men who stood on principle and personified everything that Green Berets should be.

While young leaders are out fighting our wars, however, cowards with rank are rubbing elbows and politically maneuvering to better their paychecks at the expense of their own soldiers.  Fuck them.

I don’t know what we can do to fix a culture that is rotten from the inside.  I don’t know what to do about the thousands of warriors that are let down by their chain of command every day.  I know this, though, the cowards prosecuting these two warriors should be ashamed.

I have a message for them, help me get it to them by sharing this far and wide:

Now I speak directly to you, the cowards wearing Green Berets.  You have let your men down, you have let your country down, and you have sacrificed your principles to save your career.  Your superiors wanted you to do the wrong thing, but rather than stand up to them and stand by the men who had moral courage, you sacrificed them as pawns to protect yourself.  If you do nothing now, if even when confronted with this great injustice made public you remain quiet, then you should take off the uniform because you are a disgrace to it.  Many great men died wearing those colors, believing in them and what they stood for; every day you wear it, you belittle their sacrifice you fucking coward.

I’m sick of this bullshit.

 

 

 

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Why I Always Carry

I didn’t want to venture into the political realm here because this is about helping all veterans, and as we know, vets come from all areas of the political spectrum.  As I got ready to head to the barber shop with my son a couple days ago and concealed my pistol I asked myself why I didn’t like leaving the house unarmed, and I think this is something for all veterans.

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I don’t like to go anywhere without a weapon and a spare magazine.  In fact, if I could conceal a long rifle and a basic load, I probably would do that too.  Many of us know that first magazine in a firefight goes insanely fast, and when the adrenaline is pumping hard and bullets are flying your way, your accuracy percentage plummets.

An anti-gunner would say that I’m afraid or paranoid, and somehow they are braver for venturing into the world daily without paranoia.

I’m not afraid.  I’m not paranoid.  I’m also not naïve.  Police, firefighters, paramedics and military are more likely to carry than the regular civilian population.  You know why?

Because we don’t have the luxury of pretending that there is no evil in the world.

Cops deal with the worst of us every single night.  Take a cop like my buddy Geoff who patrols one of the most dangerous neighborhoods in Orlando.  This guy chases real bad guys down every night while you dream about gumdrops and rainbows in your violence-free fantasyland.

A few months ago I went to visit him.  We walked into a restaurant together, both scanned the room, both moved to the booth in the back corner, and then fought about who gets to sit with his back to the wall.

I’ve seen the world as it really is.  I’ve lived through the experience where a situation goes from calm to chaos in a millisecond.  I’ve seen the horrific things that people are capable of and I don’t get to forget that shit.

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I carry because I know there are evil men out there.  I carry because I know how hard it is to take a violent man down.  I carry because I know how hard it is to protect someone and fight at the same time.  I carry because I know a controlled-pair center-mass is the fastest way to end a fight.

For you jackasses that think that disarming me somehow makes you safer, you should know that my guns are only dangerous to those who seek to do harm; that includes someone that wants to harm you.

So don’t feel guilty for wanting that sense of security.  You’re not broken, your eyes are opened and they can never be closed now.

Godspeed out there